Care and Affection
I decided to blog on this issue after seeing so many friends of mine behaved in a similar way. I have found people get close to another person. Be it a girl or a boy. They get close to them due to certain features like speaking frankly, being bubbly, always smiling, being very cheerful, bringing a charm to the people around them. But once they become close the people in the name of POSSESSIVENESS want them to stop doing it to others. Y do people stop their friend from doing what they liked in them?? Is this real love, care and affection?? y do they kill the kid inside the person in the name of possessiveness??
possessiveness is one devil… but sometimes we confuse caring about a person with being possessive…
take this example…
” if our girl goes for a disc with a couple of guys, we might feel justified in asking her about the guys…. but to her, u ll pose the image of being possessive or even doubting her”
a perfect understanding is what is needed for a relationship to flourish
channu
July 19, 2008 at 5:29 pm
Really well said…..
The restriction is really bad one…..
sachinsrini
July 19, 2008 at 5:30 pm
ya possesiveness ruin a relationship..very true….
neeraja
July 19, 2008 at 5:39 pm
Possessiveness is a way of showing love… it can b there… but that itself should not b d reason behind the end up of relation….
it can within a limit…
Ganeshkumar
July 22, 2008 at 5:23 am
if u love something,jus let it free…..if it comes back to you,it will always be yours…if it never returns,it was never yours to begin with….
makes a lot of sense when thought over
Abinayaa
July 25, 2008 at 4:54 pm
its good if u can control it…it shouldnt test the relationship..
RUUD
July 30, 2008 at 2:37 am
I would say the main reason for a person being possessive is INSECURITY.. Ironically, the more v r possessive, the more v make our friends(or wat ever) struggle to be free.
Start trusting people whom u care for, for sure possessiveness ll vanish.
Rosh
January 26, 2009 at 6:16 pm
sama rosh
sachinsrini
January 28, 2009 at 11:08 am